Part 1: The Encounter
We’ve all been here. New food. A new job. A new relationship. A new obstacle to jump over. New stuff can be scary.
Part 2: Paralyzing Lack of Courage
Do you react with fear? Do you step back to analyze? Do you test the waters before jumping right in? Do you wait and watch to see who else is doing it and how? Maybe you need someone to come alongside you with just the right motivation or words of encouragement.
Part 3: The Incentive
Sometimes no matter how badly you want to overcome your fear, you’re incapable of doing it on your own.
Part 4: If at first you don’t succeed…
Part 5: Try, try, and try another way
Sometimes I get to this point and realize that I’ve been ridiculous. My fear was unfounded and the only thing stopping me was myself. Other times, you finally muster up the will to touch/do/say the scary thing and find that it is, in fact, worse than you’d made it up in your mind to be. This is impossible. I. Might. As. Well. Just. Quit.
Part 6: Not Alone
Fine. I’ll swallow my pride and insistence on independence. Daddy, please, help me. I need you. I can’t do this on my own.
Part 7: Suited up for Battle
It’s almost embarrassing. I look so silly. Will this solution work? Okay Daddy, I’m trusting you. Here I go.
Part 8: (Spoiler Alert) Success and Skittles
At what point in the journey do you ask your Father for help? The command is simple:
“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Matthew 6:33
So often, I’m just like Jonathan. I try EVERYTHING to do it on my own first. I ponder the situation, psych myself up, take a running start, try to jump, try again, get frustrated, try again, and then, only then, do I take my fears to my Heavenly Father. But why do I make things so hard on myself? He was sitting right there the whole time, with a solution much better than my own silly ideas. But I fear. And I fret. And I hold onto that burden like it’s a life raft and not the millstone that it is. Philippians mirrors Matthew in the order and frequency with which we should be taking things to God:
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Philippians 4:6
And why? Certainly not because God needs His ego stroked or He expects us to fall before Him as the pitiful failures that we often are. No, it’s much purer than that.
“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7
He loves us.
Heavenly Father, Your mercies and faithfulness never cease. Your love is unconditional. Turn my face away from my fears and help me to focus on You. Encourage me always to seek You first in praise and petition. Help me to remind my problems who You are so that when I encounter bubble wrap along my path, as I certainly will, I do not stumble or stall. Remove from my heart all traces of fear and fill the empty space with trust in Your providence. In Your Son’s name I ask these things. Amen.
~Wiff Love